This is my #onelittleword for 2017 . Sometimes I am so bored I have days or weeks where I have nothing to do. Sometimes I am so busy that things (and people) get ignored. A lot of times that person is me. My priorities get out of whack a lot because in general I am a people pleaser. I want everyone to be happy and I do what I can to make that happen.
After having lunch with one of my oldest friends (as in I have known her longest, not as in actual age) and bouncing a few words off her and sending out requests to Facebook friends, I have chosen the word Prioritize. I need to prioritize “me” time. I need to prioritize my money for the adoption. I need to prioritize time spent with my friends and god-children because they all mean the world to me and keep my head above water. I need to prioritize time for my house because it too needs attention. My niece also needs attention, she is struggling with reality and I want to help her and take care of her when she lets me. I also want to make time for one of my favourite people in the world – my aunt – who also has a lot of life changes this upcoming year and whose love I feel constantly.
I could just sit back and say “screw it all, let the chips fall where they may” but I know from years past that what gets neglected is my house and me and I don’t want that to happen in 2017.
I need to make time for my creative outlet – scrapbooking. I usually end up panicking and doing a ton at the Crop and Create events I attend but then I don’t get to enjoy my friends there as much as I would like to, so up first on my list – finish my December Daily and finish Project Life 2016 by the end of next week. I also want to make time to take Julia out to Walmart to replace her Christmas gift. I may see if she is free this Saturday. I can take her to Walmart and then come by for an hour to play with her and her sister. This will make me happy. Yes, I think I am going to go text her dad right now! I will make her my priority this weekend. Also, I am being spoiled by the same lovely friend as mentioned above and she is making the trek into Durham to take me out for my birthday dinner!!! WOOHOO
The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.
What would your #onelittleword be??
Because I am not a mother I have a lot of free time on my hands to be a great (surrogate) aunt to lots of little ones and this past weekend was no exception!
My heart and soul is always with Julia, my beautiful five-year old whose parents know I will always and forever treat her like my own; she made getting through my fathers funeral a little more bearable because she was there. I don’t get to spend nearly as much time with her as I would like and now that I have moved out to Ajax the time between our visits has gotten longer, but she is NEVER far from my thoughts and ALWAYS in my heart. We have an insane connection that no one can understand and I am just so glad her mom and dad respect and accept it! I think they love it actually cause they aren’t super close to family so I am also like a little sister to them!
Anyway, this weekend, on Sunday I finally had plans to spend the day with her family and we made up for lost time! We also planned a flower party she wants to have with her little friends this summer. Thank you to Pinterest for making this party planning possible! Julia, her mom and I planned everything and then advised her dad (who was the original genius behind the idea, but who is a little better at delegating than planning) who gave it the green light and now I know I will get to see my little muffin top (cause muffin tops are the best part of the muffin) next month too!
Yesterday I was blessed to spend time with both of my friend Kims kids because her oldest (who’s 4) had a t-ball game and since Yoga was cancelled due to the holiday I got to attend. I also got to snuggle and feed her youngest (2 months) because Kim was helping with the t-ball game! So all in all last night was a GREAT night!
I spent time with their family after the game to watch fireworks too and there was so many little kiddies around and really just sitting around talking to Kim topped off a weekend high!
This weekend would have been a lot different had I had a newborn baby to take care of. Please don’t get me wrong, I still want my own child, more now than ever, but while I am not pregnant and have no responsibility but to myself and Simba, I am going to ensure I get as much “auntie” time with the little ones as possible…